What Is A Good Song About Friendship

Okay, let's talk about friendship songs. We all have them, right? The ones that make you blast the radio in your car with the windows down, singing off-key with your bestie. But what really makes a good friendship song? Is it the lyrics? The beat? Or just the sheer, unadulterated memory of belting it out during that one epic road trip?

I’ve got some thoughts. And before you @ me, these are my unpopular opinions. Feel free to disagree. That's what friends are for, after all. To have wildly different opinions and still grab pizza later.

First off, I think we need to get rid of the notion that friendship songs have to be super saccharine. You know the ones. Dripping with honey. About how you’ll be friends forever and ever and ever. While sweet, sometimes it feels a little… much. Like eating a whole bag of gummy bears. Delicious at first, then a little nauseating.

My unpopular opinion is that a truly good friendship song often has a little bit of grit. A little bit of realness. It’s about the messy parts, too. The times you annoyed each other but still showed up. The times you might have said something dumb but apologized because, well, friendship.

Think about it. Who’s your ride-or-die friend? Is it the one who agrees with everything you say? Or is it the one who calls you out when you’re being ridiculous? The one who will literally drag you out of your house when you’re moping about some minor inconvenience? That’s the friendship that deserves a soundtrack.

So, what kind of songs nail this? For me, it’s often the ones with a bit of an anthemic feel. Something you can shout along to, even if you don’t know all the words. Something that feels like a shared secret, even if millions of other people have heard it too.

Take Queen. I mean, come on. “You’re My Best Friend”. It’s a classic, yes. But it’s also just so… earnest. No fuss, no frills, just pure appreciation. It’s the musical equivalent of a big, warm hug. And who doesn’t love a big, warm hug from a friend?

Then there’s The Beatles. “With a Little Help from My Friends”. Again, simple. Direct. It acknowledges that life can be tough, but you don’t have to go through it alone. It’s that feeling of knowing someone has your back. That’s powerful stuff. And it’s sung by Ringo Starr! You can’t get much more wholesome than that.

But what about something a little more… modern? Sometimes the older songs, while great, can feel a bit like looking at old photos. Fond memories, but not quite the vibe of your current friendships. And this is where things get tricky, because “friendship” can be a broad category.

I’m not talking about those breakup songs that are all, “I’ll be your friend if you want me to be.” No, no, no. That’s not friendship. That’s lingering. That’s awkward. We’re talking about the real deal.

For a more contemporary feel, I’m going to throw out a slightly controversial pick: Taylor Swift. Now, before you start typing angry comments, hear me out. While many of her songs are about romance, she’s got a few gems that capture the essence of female friendship so perfectly. Think “22”. It’s not explicitly a friendship song, but the whole vibe of having fun, being a little silly, and doing it with your girls? That’s peak friendship energy.

It’s about those moments when you’re just… being. Laughing until your sides hurt. Sharing secrets over bad coffee. These are the moments that make life worth living.

And then there's Sia with “Alive”. Okay, again, not a direct friendship song. But the message of resilience, of pushing through tough times, and knowing you’re not alone? That’s a powerful undercurrent for any strong friendship. It’s about coming out the other side, stronger, together.

What about something with a bit more of an edge? Something that acknowledges the complicated nature of human connection? Sometimes a good friendship song isn’t about perfect harmony. It’s about navigating the bumps in the road. It’s about forgiveness. It’s about understanding.

This is where my really unpopular opinion might come in. Sometimes, a song that’s technically a love song can feel like a friendship anthem. Hear me out. Think about songs where the lyrics speak to a deep, unwavering support. A belief in someone, even when they don’t believe in themselves. That’s friendship, right? It’s that platonic soulmate vibe.

For example, Ed Sheeran’s “Perfect”. While it’s clearly a romantic ballad, the lines about finding someone and knowing they’re “the one” can, in a broader sense, apply to that perfect friendship. The one you know will always be there. The one who makes you feel truly seen and understood.

But if I had to pick one song that, for me, encapsulates the perfect blend of fun, a little bit of chaos, and unwavering loyalty, it’s probably something like The Ramones’ “Blitzkrieg Bop”. Hear me out! "Hey! Ho! Let's go!" It's pure, unadulterated energy. It’s about doing something crazy together. It’s about the shared thrill of it all. It’s the sound of a spontaneous adventure with your best mates. You don’t need deep lyrics when you’ve got that kind of infectious enthusiasm.

Ultimately, a good friendship song is subjective. It’s personal. It’s the song that, when it comes on, you immediately think of that one person. The one who makes life a little brighter, a little funnier, and a lot more bearable. It’s the soundtrack to your inside jokes, your shared history, and your future adventures. So, crank it up, sing it loud, and celebrate those amazing friendships. They’re worth a thousand perfect songs.